It’s 2026 and people still feel the social pressure to have a “coming out”. Thought we would be beyond this by now.
Why should anybody other than me care about who I love? Or how I express love?
Love — May 12, 2026 in Living LifeIt’s 2026 and people still feel the social pressure to have a “coming out”. Thought we would be beyond this by now.
Why should anybody other than me care about who I love? Or how I express love?
Love — May 12, 2026 in Living LifeLoud, he calls tonight
into the dark silent void
forever hopeful.
I always felt sorry for people having to commute to work. So much time, just wasted. But reading a short post on Thisness… on Sourcefeed today got me thinking.
The commute can be a ritual. Quality time. Being alone with yourself. A stop at Starbucks. The first morning coffee. Singing along to the new album of your favorite band.
Working remote, I have to deliberately create moments like this. Maybe having to commute isn’t that bad after all.
Commute — May 01, 2026 in Living LifeThink of everyone who’s left a mark on your life, from the day you were born until today. Now imagine a map that shows where they are. No, not like Google Maps. Like the Marauder’s Map from Harry Potter. And imagine the map moves through time, tracing everyone’s path.
I bet you’d see quite a few „paths crossed” — people walking right past you — years before you’d actually meet them.
Strangers — April 29, 2026 in Living LifeIf we all would be a little bit more like Terry Godier, the world would be a better place.
Thank you for doing what you are doing, Terry.
Terry Godier — April 29, 2026 in Living LifeI feel like we should normalize ending meetings five minutes early and starting five minutes late. And spend the extra time to talk off topic or grab a coffee. Just ease things up by default.
Break — February 10, 2026 in Living LifePasta, pepper, cheese, water, salt. Five ingredients. All taste. Life can be so simple.
Cacio e pepe — July 20, 2025 in Living LifeMan, do I love my coffee routine.
Coffee routine — July 10, 2025 in Living LifeOn that note: I think it is really essential that we teach our kids to embrace boredom. Just sit and don‘t think of anything. Can you?
Boredom — May 25, 2025 in Living LifeScreen Time should also consider frequency and the overall total of opening an app or the phone itself. How often have you picked up your phone today to do… nothing, really?
Screen Time — May 25, 2025 in Living LifeI made a mistake. I borrowed my father’s Zuriga espresso machine while he is traveling.
Zuriga — January 09, 2025 in Living LifeWhile watching one of Apple’s stunning screensavers on the Apple TV, I just realized:
there must be several film teams constantly traveling the world on the hunt of new drone shots that capture the most spectacular perspectives of our planet earth.
Well… maybe in another life.
Screensaver — November 08, 2024 in Living LifeElon Musk is a terrible person, but his company caught a gargantuan rocket booster with “chopsticks” today.
SpaceX — October 13, 2024 in Living LifeImposter syndrome can hit hard.
Imposter — September 17, 2024 in Living LifeRaising a child is the toughest job on earth. It has good compensation, though.
Parenting — June 08, 2024 in Living LifeI’m fully aware of our consumer society and its implications. I tend to lean against consumerism.
But the urge to have, to need something I discover that ticks all the boxes, is so strong. It’s really hard sometimes to take a step back, to resist and reflect.
Consumerism — June 02, 2024 in Living Life